Dear Lee's Place is a monthly column appearing in the Health Section of the Tallahassee Democrat every fourth Monday of the month. This column works "Dear Abby" style, with 1 or 2 grief/loss related questions addressed every month.  Questions may be submitted in writing only via email at dearleesplace@leesplace.org or to our physical address at 216 Lake Ella Dr., Tallahassee, FL,  32303.